{"id":8459,"date":"2026-05-11T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-11T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/infonews.ca\/?p=7639456"},"modified":"2026-05-11T04:00:22","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T11:00:22","slug":"kelowna-womans-speed-dating-business-helping-people-escape-dating-apps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/infonews.ca\/inwine\/news\/8459\/kelowna-womans-speed-dating-business-helping-people-escape-dating-apps\/","title":{"rendered":"Kelowna woman&#8217;s speed dating business helping people escape dating apps"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Online dating can be a lot like shopping, sometimes if you want to know what you\u2019re getting it\u2019s better to look around in person. That\u2019s what people are finding at speed dating events in Kelowna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hailey Janes was a school teacher back in October when she started <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eventbrite.ca\/e\/speed-dating-kelowna-men-for-men-tickets-1987111857056?aff=ebdssbdestsearch#organizer-card\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Speed Dating Kelowna.<\/a> Now she\u2019s running the business full-time and has organized events for around 1,400 people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cPeople just love love and want to connect or are sick of dating apps,\u201d she said. \u201cWe just hit the ground running. Like it&#8217;s been insane.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Janes started out with an event for people ages 25 to 35, but after the event\u2019s popularity she expanded to events for various age brackets, sexual orientations and different interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ticket prices vary, usually between $25 to $35. At the end of the event participants fill out a card and they are notified the next day if they get any matches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The events are organized in typical speed dating fashion with structured mini-dates around five to seven minutes each, match cards and conversation prompts if needed. But some of the events have a twist like a salsa dancing lesson intro or an event where people can bring their dogs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI did one recently for people who like board games and gaming in general,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe&#8217;ve done them for men for men, women for women. I have a friendship event coming up. There&#8217;s just a huge, huge demand to connect in general.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/infonews.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2026-05-08-at-3.45.22-PM.png?w=1024\" alt=\"|\" class=\"wp-image-7639465\" title=\"|\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">A table set up for a speed dating event with optional conversation starter cards. <br \/>FACEBOOK\/Speed Dating Kelowna<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The speed dating events have been selling out, but it hasn\u2019t always gone smoothly, like an ages 60 to 75 event back in November.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI had sold out women&#8217;s tickets and I had one men&#8217;s ticket sold,\u201d she said. \u201cSo I had to cancel that one, which I felt so bad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I had one lady email and was like, \u2018I&#8217;m not going to say I&#8217;m not disappointed. I slept with the curlers in last night.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She hasn&#8217;t given up on a senior&#8217;s night and has an event planned for folks over 70.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Janes said the toughest demographic to get out to speed date has been men over 40.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI think for them, it&#8217;s a very new concept. And I think for the men, it needs to be a word of mouth thing,\u201d she said. \u201cThey maybe need someone else to go out for him and try it. But we&#8217;re finally now at a place where we&#8217;re not really struggling to get older men.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It has only been around six months but there are already some success stories coming out of Janes\u2019 events.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe did the East Kelowna Valentine&#8217;s Day market,\u201d she said. \u201cHalfway through the day there was a knock at my door and I opened it. And it was a couple who had met at one of my events saying \u2018I just wanted to stop and say hi, like let you know that we&#8217;re still together.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The challenges of dating apps are well-known: bare-bones profiles, endless swiping and often boring conversations with people who aren\u2019t serious about making a connection. Janes said the benefit of a speed dating event is the kind of person it attracts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe people who are looking for something a little bit more genuine, got dressed up, showed up, paid to be there. So it always attracts a very nice person. So they&#8217;re always people who are really easy to talk to,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Janes said she welcomes suggestions or requests from people who want to see a certain kind of event or they want her to come to their city in the Okanagan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s going on in the trenches, as I call it. 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