
How one word can turn your life upside down
“ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE”
VERNON – Just a few weeks ago, 17-year-old Dennon Leibel was attending his last few classes before graduating high school. Now, he’s in a hospital bed, going through his first round of chemo.
The word cancer turned his life, and his family’s, upside down. It was sudden and unexpected; no one thought Dennon, a healthy, active teen would get a rare bone cancer called Ewing’s sarcoma.
“The first thing I thought was why isn’t it me? Why is it him? Is he going to live?” father Rick Leibel says.
Cancer always happens to someone else, until it doesn’t. Suddenly, you’re wheeled into a foreign land of medical rooms and unfamiliar terminology.
“There’s no guide book,” Dennon’s aunt Jody Leibel, a nurse, says. “Your life changes in an instant. They really have no idea what they’re dealing with yet — we’re only in the first week of treatment.”
Dennon, a grade 12 student at Clarence Fulton Secondary School and avid hockey player, woke up a few weeks ago with numbness in his leg. Everyone, including him, thought it was a sports injury, possibly a pinched nerve—anything but the 15 cm by 11 cm tumor doctors found lodged in his pelvis. It was much, much more than they could ask aunt Jody, their standby nurse, to fix.
Instead of shopping for a suit to wear at prom, Dennon is now facing a year of chemo, followed by surgery to remove the tumour, then more chemo — a treatment plan with a 50-70 per cent success rate.
Rick would sell his house and everything he's worked for in an instant to pay for his son's treatment. That's the easy part. Trying to stay positive, trying not to pore over online forums about Ewing's sarcoma, having to say goodbye to his son every week to return to work — those are the difficult parts. Dennon’s sister Alexis, 19, says it’s hard to see her witty, upbeat, jokester of a baby brother cooped up in a hospital bed.
“You want to do what you can to help, but all you can really do is be there for him and be positive for him,” she says.
Dennon’s mom will stay with him through the course of his treatment at B.C. Children’s Hospital in Vancouver, while Rick and Alexis take turns visiting on weekends. Dennon, never without his cell phone, has received countless messages of support from friends and his grad class. There’s a chance he’ll be able to come home for grad. It would only be a short visit, and his energy would be zapped from the chemo, but it’s something to hope for.
For Dennon’s family, the diagnosis has been a reminder and a wake-up call that no one is immune to tragedy.
“You shouldn’t fret the little stuff, you should take into account what matters,” Alexis says. “Anything can happen, be grateful for what you have.”
Having been through the medical system, Rick has been inspired to give blood and sign up to be a bone marrow donor.
“It’s like, you always talk about it and never do it,” Rick says. “Having my son go through this and people needing blood, as soon as I can I’m going to go down and do it. It’s a piece of cake to do it — we all should. It shouldn’t take something to happen for it to wake you up.”
Unbeknownst to Dennon’s parents, Jody set up an online fundraiser to help with expenses. The campaign earned over $10,000 in three days.
“It shows in a time of need the community comes together to support you, whether it’s by donating or giving words of encouragement,” Alexis says.

To contact the reporter for this story, email Charlotte Helston at chelston@infotelnews.ca or call 250-309-5230. To contact the editor, email mjones@infotelnews.ca or call 250-718-2724.
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12 responses
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this sucks…chemo kills far more than it helps…there are plenty of alternative treatments…lord have mercy.
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I don’t know you and you don’t know me.I don’t know what you believe in or who your support system is when something this awful happens.However, I do know that the God of this universe knew this was coming into your family’s life long before you did.Give some thought to who God is in your family’s life.He may be trying to get your attention.I will pray for your family.I have seen amazing miracles in a young girl, only 18, who recently had a cancer diagnosis.She has a long way to go but she is further along then we expected only a few months ago.
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My son Ben also played for the North Okanagan Knights.Our family is sending you positive thoughts. Stay strong.
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Sorry to hear about your son Dennon Rick.I went through cancer myself over 15 years ago and beat it!Stay strong and think positive thoughts.We are praying for you and your family.God is good!
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sending lots of positive thoughts to you Rick, and your fam…..
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We send our love and positive thoughts along to you Dennon and your family.Stay positive!You can and will beat this!
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Sending healing thoughts and good wishes for you Dennon and family!
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Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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My Thoughts and prayers are with you all!
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Sending love and prayers.Stay positive, Dennon – you WILL beat this.
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You can beat this Dennon, stay positive and enjoy your grad!
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Mike and I are so sorry to hear about what your family is going through.Sending you guys tons of prayers.
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