Family grieves as timely treatment for mental health issues prove elusive

PENTICTON – As a Penticton family mourns the death of a daughter and sister, they are pointing out the mental healthcare system's inability to deliver treatment effectively.

The family of Danny and Tricia Highley struggle to come to grips with the death of their 18-year-old daughter Chloe from an accidental heroin overdose on April 26.

According to the Highley family, their struggles to get Chloe the help she needed reveal a flaw in the system — an inability to get treatment in crisis situations which don’t meet the health authority criteria.

Chloe’s father, Danny Highley, hopes some good may come of Chloe's death, if telling her story can prevent another family from going through what his has endured.

HIghley, who works as an addictian clinician, says Chloe’s mental health and drug issues began suddenly, and escalated quickly. In January her anxiety suddenly began to escalate and she became sad and depressed.

"She was the classic case of a self medicating individual, namely anxious and depressed," he says.

Most attempts the Highleys made to seek professional help and intervention were met with frustration and bureaucratic stonewalling, he says.

Danny Highley says even before his own daughter’s issues, he noted problems getting timely treatment for those suffering from mental illness in his own practice.

“Sometimes it would take me four months to get someone into treatment. At Portage, for example, it wasn’t like you could call them up and say, ‘Hey, I’ve got this kid and I want them to come in.' You had to go through this bizarre screening committee Interior Health set up… it wouldn’t have been a great option for us."

Portage BC’s The Crossing in Keremeos is a youth addiction treatment facility, which closed its doors earlier this year.

The problem the Highley's ran into was Chloe's primary issue wasn't addiction. In fact, she wouldn't meet Interior Health's criteria for addiciton.

Her father says she was going three or four days without taking any drug, saying it was mainly just on the weekend when she would go to a friend's place or her sister's apartment.

"There were a bunch of creeps hanging around there and that’s the other issue. There were people out of our control we didn’t know she was seeing."

Highley says there were opportunities along the way for Chloe to get the help she needed, but the bureaucracy failed them.

Her decline wasn't gradual. He says they family had a great Christmas but by the end of January they were in a full blown crisis.

He says the critical point was when a doctor in Penticton recognized the seriousness of her mental illness and admitted her to Penticton Regional Hospital where Chloe was stabilized.

Then a planned transfer to Sick Childrens' Hospital in Vancouver was cancelled.

Highley said the Friday before Chloe died there was supposed to be a conference call which was put off because health officials wanted a “concurrent” disorder person to attend.

“A concurrent disorder just means someone with an addiction and a mental health issue. I tried to explain to them, ‘Listen, she barely has an addiction, she doesn’t go through withdrawals, and they said, well we need someone," he says. "It’s just a joke, it’s just a bad joke. Because we wouldn’t have learned anything new from having that concurrent person.”

“What we encountered is just unbelievable."

To contact the reporter for this story, email Steve Arstad at sarstad@infonews.ca or call 250-488-3065. To contact the editor, email mjones@infonews.ca or call 250-718-2724.

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7 responses

  1. Can Soooooo relate to this story!There just is not the help that these kids need.Mental health issues just are not a top priority to our government, in fact the priority level is very low.Its very sad how many kids will die and the ones who don’t will have a life that is lets just say not good!

  2. My heart goes out to this family and all the families whose lives have been affected by addiction and mental health.We need more specialized services to help those in need

  3. Sylvia Sajna Pilich

    This issue needs to be addressed. I’ve already lost one son to drugs and have been fighting endlessly for the life of my daughter. The system does NOT make it easy.

  4. April Riley

    I feel your pain…I truly do as May 6 (yesterday )was the 14 year mark for my son’s suicide death. He was 20. Jimmy asked for help I attended many appointments with him….if you were not in a disturbed state when you started the political red tape…well you were shortly there after. My heart aches for you and know this, the pain does not go away it does ease slightly over years. Stay in the company of those that are okay with you talking about your beautiful daughter and your families story , those who don’t want to let you talk are the wrong people to be with <3.

  5. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…Although I never met Chloe I was deeply moved by Chloe’s story.I have seen how the bureaucratic stonewalling works and the frustration it causes families.

  6. Yep Interior Health…time for changes from the top down.

  7. Lilli Pifer

    Danny and Trisha, my heart goes out to you at this time. I personally know what an incredible family you have and how loving you both are. This not right or fair but thank you for having the strength to help others during your difficult journey. You are loved and thought about more than you know. Will be at the walk on Saturday in Chloe’s name. Love and prayes

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Steve Arstad

I have been looking for news in the South Okanagan - SImilkameen for 20 years, having turned a part time lifelong interest into a full time profession. After five years publishing a local newsletter, several years working as a correspondent / stringer for several local newspapers and seven years as editor of a Similkameen weekly newspaper, I joined iNFOnews.ca in 2014. My goal in the news industry has always been to deliver accurate and interesting articles about local people and places. My interest in the profession is life long - from my earliest memories of grade school, I have enjoyed writing.
As an airborne geophysical surveyor I travelled extensively around the globe, conducting helicopter borne mineral surveys.
I also spent several years at an Okanagan Falls based lumber mill, producing glued-wood laminated products.
As a member of the Kaleden community, I have been involved in the Kaleden Volunteer Fire Department for 22 years, and also serve as a trustee on the Kaleden Irrigation District board.
I am currently married to my wife Judy, of 26 years. We are empty-nesters who enjoy living in Kaleden with our Welsh Terrier, Angus, and cat, Tibbs.
Our two daughters, Meagan and Hayley, reside in Richmond and Victoria, respectively.

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